Wednesday, February 5, 2014

Five Months Old

I've started this new blog here, because I've maxed out the number of pictures I can upload for free on the last one. I started the last one in 2008, so that's pretty good!

Charlotte is 5 months now, and growing so fast. She can roll all over the place, sits on her own some, but still not enough that I can walk away from her. She tries to get up on her knees, but doesn't quite get it yet, but she can still push herself forward a bit with her toes, and she also slides herself backward and is able to turn around.

She is 23 pounds, according to my scale, which isn't always as accurate as their infant scales at the clinic. She's in 18 month shirts, and 12 month pants. She's still a healthy, chubby baby, but she's lost a couple chins, I can see her neck more. She's getting some strong tummy muscles, too! Still sleeping through the night. She goes to bed between 9-11 and sleeps until 6-7am. Which is perfect, because it gives us some time to watch tv in the evening, and she wakes up either before I get Dawson up, so then I can feed her and she goes back to sleep. Or she wakes up after I get him on the bus. She's really a super easy baby, I'm really enjoying her! At mealtime, she sits in her chair at the table with us, and is very quiet. With the rest of the kids, I always had to hold them while I ate, because they fussed the minute I even looked at my food. But even when she's been a bit fussy, she just sits there, observing everyone. I've only had to hold her while I eat a few times since she's been born! Only counting eating at home. Other places are just off routine and I often end up holding her. But to have a home routine this early is pretty good. She enjoys her exersaucer and jumperoo. She takes 1-2 naps per day, usually at least a couple hours.

At her 4 month appointment last month, she was 20 pounds, 6 ounces and 24 inches tall. She was wearing 12 month clothes. The Dr says she looks really good and he loves how chunky she is. She's over 100th percentile for weight. I love appointments that end with no concerns!

Gabriel has been doing better with his hip pain. He gets adjusted at the chiropractor weekly, and that really keeps on top of it. The last time, he didn't even have very much to adjust in his hips, so she was impressed with that. It's been almost a year, and I'm really leaning toward it being a growth issue. He does have an appointment with the Rheumatologist next month, just to rule out some things, but I'm hopeful that it's just been growing pains. Gabriel seems much older, with lots of new vocabulary, he picks up toys, and understands so much more. He loves it when I ask him to do things, like turning on a light, or bringing stuff to people.

Dawson had a growth spurt, too. He's looking so much older these days. Having a hard time in school lately, we think he might be bored. The things he's bringing home for math are things he knew last year, so he just doesn't want to do it. We will be bringing that up at his conferences next week, along with some suggestions our lead home therapist has for his fidgeting when they're sitting on the mat by the board. He's otherwise doing great, I have him doing some more things around the house, like setting and clearing the table, rinsing out his own bowl instead of just putting it by the sink. He likes those jobs much better than picking up toys. He is currently working on a sticker chart to go to Nickelodeon Universe, which is the amusement park inside Mall of America. He was very disappointed when we didn't go on rides when we went, so that gave us a new idea of someplace to go. He's very excited about earning it. We usually rotate between getting a prize, and going somewhere, and it works out to be a monthly sticker chart. His prize last month was the Wreck it Ralph Wii game. Other months he's just wanted small things, like a Mario figure.

Her monthly car seat pics. This is 3 months.
4 months
 5 months. She sure grew a lot in her legs this past month!
 
What Charlotte really looks like in the car seat. Since it's winter, and below zero, she's under this cozy cover with a blanket and a hat. She stays very warm in there! It's kinda weird seeing her in just the car seat every month when I do the monthly pics, so it's a surprise for everyone. This explains why the bottom keeps popping off though, she kicks it and her feet are at the end! Only a couple more months of this winter stuff!
 
 We went to Mall of America and met up with some friends. We also went to Build A Bear, since we had a gift card, and Dawson got a cute monkey. They really had fun stuffing and cleaning it. The house box it came in is in Dawson's bed, and the monkey has to sleep in it every night!

 This is Charlotte's seat. It sits near the kitchen so she can watch me cook, which she does often. We move it to the table for supper.


 
 She really likes this toy. She has even accidentally got some of them open when she hits it, which is always funny to watch. It's hard to tell, but she's growing some hair! She had lost nearly everything on the top of her head, it was shiny and bald. Now she has a nice layer of baby fuzz all over her head. It happened nearly overnight! Will be interesting to see what color it is. Still a bit soon to tell.


Gabriel is such a good big brother. He loves laying on the floor with her, and he's always giving her kisses, and cooing at her.





Rolling over, but she stopped to see what I was doing


She likes to grab Gabriel's shirt and teethe on him. I think he equally enjoys the attention!








I had put my pillow next to her so she wouldn't roll off. So she turned herself around and was scooting herself forward. When I came back in the room, minutes later, she just smiled at me. These pictures ended up bigger, because I copied them from my facebook, and they won't adjust.
Photo: Mom, you put this pillow in my way! No worries though, I just turned around and I'm going around it. Lol

The boys enjoyed having friends over for a day.
Photo: Kids were excited to watch a movie. We don't put them on the big tv very often. :)

Dawson thinks it's neat to sit on a ball when he watches things sometimes.
Photo: How Dawson is watching tv this morning. Lol. Ever since Amie borrowed me her birth ball when I was pregnant with Charlotte, and I'd sit on it to watch things, he thinks it's cool to sit on a ball while watching tv, too!

Poor Charlotte got hit by a toy train during Gabriel's tantrum. It didn't turn into a dark bruise, but it's still a bit yellow. She's a trooper, she didn't even cry for very long, and wasn't fussy after that.
Photo: Poor Charlotte has her first bruise. Gabriel was having a tantrum, and a train engine hit her forehead. She was just rolling around the floor, keeping to herself. :(

Playing with the bear my grandma gave her for Christmas. She really likes it.
Photo: Charlotte likes her bear. 4.5mo

The kids and I at Mall of America. We went through Underwater Aquarium, and it was fun to see all the fish and small sharks. Dawson loved the sharks, but was afraid of the jelly fish. I found that rather amusing.
Photo: We had fun at the Mall of America underwater aquarium today. Long, very tiring day! I'm exhausted.

What I saw when I got out of the shower a couple weeks ago. Charlotte had woken up, and Gabriel was keeping her company.
Photo: No matter how you're day is going, you can't go wrong with seeing this after you get out of the shower. <3

She loves her exersaucer
Photo: It's fun seeing her in different colors. She's getting balder every day, too! Yesterday she rolled all over the place and she has 2 teeth ready to pop through any day now.

Cousins!
Photo: Our 4 beautiful grandchildren = a chairful of joy & happiness

Charlotte with her princess jammies
Photo: Her first princess pjs! So adorable. :)

The boys sometimes sleep together at night. It's so cute!
Photo: Aw, they put themselves to bed. Love this! They've been sleeping together more often lately. So sweet. :)

The boys enjoy putting things on her head sometimes, finding it funny when she looks down and it falls off. She's a good sport!
Photo: The joys of having siblings. They think it's funny to put things on her head. She's starting to be amused, too. Lol

All my kids at 4 months old.
Photo: 4 months

Sunday, December 1, 2013

Three Months Old

Charlotte is 3 months old (in 2 days). I weighed her today, and she is 20 pounds, 10 ounces! Wow! That's 5 pounds this month. She's been spitting up a bunch still too, but she obviously is getting enough despite that. I set up her exersaucer yesterday, she loves it! She's nearly too heavy for her swing, but she does still like it some, so I'm keeping it out for now. I will enjoy putting it away though, it's really in the way! But it's often what helps her nap, though she takes about half her naps in her crib now.

Dawson is doing great! We had his IEP meeting in November, and they had great things to say about him. He's having none of the behavior issues he had last year. All of his goals and things he wasn't getting at the end of the year, we worked on all summer, and he now has them mastered. Rhyming was a big one. They cut his para support hours in half, because he just doesn't need it. He has become very independent, he just needs some help getting started, and then he gets all his work done. He understands the work, much of it is still stuff he already knows. He's also very interested in learning, and comes home with questions about phrases, words and meanings, and other things. We also get corrected. He had a shirt with a spider on it, and he asked me why he has a spider on his shirt. I told him they wanted to make an animal shirt, so they put a spider on it. He said "No mom, it's an INSECT shirt!". He loves playing Mario on the Wii, and watching Curious George in his free time.

A painting Dawson brought home from school! I was impressed.
 
They had a binder of these to look at during conferences. I thought it was so sweet that Dawson put down Gabriel as his friend. :)
 
Dawson ate a new food! This has happened more often lately, and hopefully it will continue! Meatballs! He will now eat spaghetti O's with mini meatballs. So exciting! This is the first beef product he's even tried, and he's eaten it many times now.

Gabriel, who has been my sweet, easy-going child, seems to have flipped a switch. He's 2 1/2 now, and throwing tantrums about everything. Pulling hair, hitting, biting, scratching. Fighting bedtime for hours, which has never been an issue. This kid used to be so easy! I'd say goodnight and he'd walk himself to bed. He's also fighting mealtimes, even though he's hungry and loves what we're having. He's just being so blatantly stubborn, it's so frustrating. I know it's just a phase, it will end. Hopefully soon. Those 3's are tough though, so I'm bracing myself!

Doesn't help that I'm still having hormone issues. They were crazy during my pregnancy, and they haven't leveled out at all. I still have a super short fuse, and get irritable so fast. Not a good mix. I'm going to ask my OB if there's something to help with that, because it's getting difficult to deal with. Almost worse than it was when she was born. I was fine for a couple months, but it's gotten worse again. Very frustrating. So my patience is not holding up with the tantrums, and it's just not a great mix. This month was a hard one as well. Last year I was find once the anniversary passed. This year it took a couple extra weeks to climb out of that black hole of depression and feel somewhat normal again. Now I'm feeling ok, other than the raging hormones. It's been fun doing some Christmas shopping.

Dawson had the week off school, so that doesn't help with the patience. It's been stretched more than usual this week! He was great for about half the week, and then he started having issues. He doesn't do well being off routine for very long. We went to The Works museum on Monday, which was very fun. Basic science concepts, both boys loved it. Tuesday we went to Bounce Adventure, a bouncy house place. Wednesday we went to the Rainbow play systems place. They have 6 indoor playgrounds set up, and a trampoline. So we were able to go wear off some energy most days of the week, and they loved it. Thursday we went to my mom's house for Thanksgiving. Friday and the weekend we mostly stayed home. Today (Sunday), we did get groceries and the boys and I got haircuts. I'm looking forward to getting back into routine though.

Napping in the swing
 
She likes sitting on the couch, watching her brothers
 
 Gabriel's new shoes! I thought these were really cute. The headlights and taillights even light up, which is very handy after dark!
 Dawson's school picture. I hadn't planned on getting school pics, so I didn't have him wear anything special. Yet they sent me a big picture anyway!
 The boys cuddled up watching PBS kids cartoons on the ipad. I love these moments, they don't have them often. I was in the kitchen zooming in on them so they wouldn't see me before I got the pic!
 Gabriel likes sitting in Charlotte's chair, and then he gets up and tries to walk with it. Doesn't always go well.
 He figured it out though.
 Gabriel likes to sleep with many toys. Under the stuffed horses, there are many hard plastic horses. I try to sneak them out after he's asleep, because he moves all over the place and wakes up if he gets scratched by a hard toy!
 Big healthy baby!
 
 Her exersaucer. We got this for my baby shower, it was fun putting it together! I've never had brand new baby stuff before, other than car seats and a crib, everything has been used. I like putting stuff together. Gabriel had fun helping me, and running off with the pieces.
 She was very intrigued
 She likes the stripes.
 Figuring out how to reach the toys. She's still working on getting her arms to do what she wants. She can reach out and play with toys, but it still takes a lot of work to get it right!
 Yay, she got it!
 The boys loved the box, of course.










 
Our group at The Works museum. Minus Dawson, he was off playing.

 This harp was played with sensor lights around the frame. Was really neat!
 
Watching water go up the tube as he turned it
 
The boys both loved this racing ramp.

Donated my hair today! As you can see (mostly) in the last pic, my hair was down to my butt. They were going to take 10 inches, but ended up taking more. It's several inches shorter than what she said it would be. It felt much shorter than this at first, but I'm getting used to it. I had Dawson take this pic. It looks longer than it feels! It's always weird getting used to it shorter. I donated it every 1-2 years usually, but since I started coloring it in 2011, I couldn't. They recently changed the rules though, and they do accept colored hair. That was my one thing I was holding off coloring it for, so now I don't feel as guilty. :)
 
 Charlotte on Thanksgiving. My mom had fun dressing her up after she got her last outfit all wet.
 
 Cousins!
 
 The boys being silly. They switched car seats after we got home, they thought they were quite hilarious.
 
 Dawson had lots of fun playing Mario with a friend this week. He's been really wanting someone to play 2 player with him. Other than me. Friends are more fun.
 
 Gabriel is having growing pains again. He's been to the chiropractor 3 times in 10 days, and he's getting more loosened up, but still not quite there. He was really having a hard time the other night. Screaming in pain, stumbling. I had to give him pain meds and do some stretches with him, then he was better and fell asleep. He fell asleep on this bench, but woke up crying a few times, and it took another dose once I put him to bed for him to get through it. The last couple days have been much better. He has grown so much, he went up another pants size. The dr said last time that he was surprised at how much he's been growing, it's not the usual pace for a 2 year old. Poor kiddo! I feel so helpless when he's screaming in pain.

Charlotte enjoying the jumperoo at Bounce Adventure, while the boys played on the bouncy houses. She was amused by the toys.
 
 Monthly car seat picture. She decided to ham it up and give a smile. :)
Still plenty of growing room, thankfully! Thankful I got this seat, so she'd get through the winter all snug and warm. It goes up to 35 pounds too, so we should be good. In theory. ;)


 
Monthly comparisons
 
 Gabriel has been running out of his room every night, so I finally put up this gate tonight. I got rid of our doorway baby gates, because he was such an awesome, easy kid! I didn't figure I'd need them anymore. He can open the door, even with door knob covers. They don't even slow him down. The gate sure does though!

Some emotional things coming up, with our 3rd Christmas without Tyler, and also Charlotte's 4 month well baby checkup. Always stressful, that was the appt Tyler was diagnosed at. It's a bit irrational, since the chances of it being at the same time would be so slim. It's just a milestone, even though every well child check is almost as stressful for the same reason. Hoping Christmas will go well, I'm actually excited for some things this year, so I'm hopeful that it will be a good holiday. I'm casually picking up gifts here and there, I'm nearly done. We try to keep holidays as stress-free as possible. We don't really spend a ton, but sometimes we will get a bigger family gift. We don't do Santa, we only do a few gifts each, and we mostly focus on family. I'm actually looking forward to decorating the tree. Last year we got the tree up, it had lights, but that was it. I had no motivation to do any more. Hoping this year we will be able to get more into it.